Friends

Ok something is so wrong with the pink mobile! ..grrrr! Apparently my security code is WRONG!! ..grrr.. how is that possible..I've been using the same code for the pass 2 months.. sighhh.. anyone faced the same problem and then manage to solve it?? do let me know..=((

So anyway.. I was wondering about friends..

Friends..hmm.. yes friends.. we talk, we laugh, we have luch, we hang out..and oh yes, we gossip! ..;p ;p ..

But yes friends.. honestly, do we really know them?

• They smile when you're around..but how you'd know if its genuine?

• They talk to you, like your their bestest friend ever.. and at your back, who knows, what they're telling others??

• They tell you stories..and how many of the stories real and not made-up??

• They put on a laugh, a smile.. but what are they hiding up inside?? A deep secret that they rather not say to anyone?? or perhaps loneliness??

• They put on a show..because that's how it is.. If there's no drama.. no one wants to friends with them.. And everyone would think they're boring.. hmmm

• And what about the ones that tries to fit in.. You change, who you are, who you were..the way you speak, they way you dress... just to fit in??

• And the ones who are quiet.. the hi, bye ones... what exactly is going through their mind when they see you.. err.. could it be, "Oh God, please don't let her see me.. please let her pass by witout talking!!" ..
• And the ones, who knows you.. but not even a single smile.. not even a word.. how is it possible? You've been friends and really good friends before..and now, complete strangers? ..Do they regret, or is it just "pay-back time?!"
• And then the friends who recognizes you..only when they need your help?? ..hmm.. why?? what's wrong in being friends..and just friends? No expectation, no judgements..nothing. just friends!

And indeed, the many faces of human.. the many masks they wear to hide their true colours.. hmm.. but well, phil colins, says it beautifull here..

"I see your true colours shinning through.. 

I see your true colours and that's why I love you.. 

So don't be afraid to let them show your true colours.. 

true colours are beautiful like a rainbow.."

Why can't friends be just friends?? Why can't humans, just like themselves for who they are..?? Seriously, if you think people will NOT  like you..for YOU.. then let it be.. =) Honestly, let it be.. So what of they don't like you..for you?? It's their loss anyway..for not many dare to be who they are.. and well you know, when you just smile.. smile genuinely from deep within.. even the most arrogant clown will melt!! ..=) ..oh well, if he doesn't ..he must have had a depressed childhood..;p

Yes I do realize, you cannot change a person, you cannot make someone adhere to your beliefs.. because as everyone says it, "its your life..!!" ..hmm.. there is just something wrong somewhere..

oh and well, you know what else kills me?? ..the fact that you dont know who to trust, who not to trust.. and who is real, who is fake..

But I do have another solution for that too! =) Treat others like how you want to be treated.. and you will witness a miracle!

Amen!